GUYS Egos

Just wondering if it's just us, or do other couples have the same issues when trying to find guys for MFM. We seem to be magnets for guys who have obvious needs to try boost there ego by trying to dominate and I think watched too many scenes of porn that may be name "fuck me like a jackhammer " or something like that?

All too many guys are so good at talking, but come play time, they seem to think a pussy has a need for hard, deep fast action from the get go? I may be diff to most or some, but I can't stand being fingered to the hand and begin sex and we at full pelt within 3 stroke!

We do try and talk to people before hand and say what we do and don't like!

Ears are optional it seems

Guys- calm down, what's the rush! Lol

Maybe it's me! Or we just had a bad Trott!

to bloody true we have had the same they never get invited we have found a few good regulars

i like being on the bottom to start. Enables the lady to control the tempo (while allowing great access to their nipples)

you may also find that these guys are inexperienced with couples and are putting on the persona of confidence because thats what they think you want.

just like the guys that act all cocky at the pub

Sadly Bonnie and Clyde there are a few bad apples in the bunch...though I have read and heard many good reports of decent guys.. sometimes you have to sift the dust to find the 't despair.

That's where vouches come in very useful.  It's always a minority that wrecks it for the majority.  The idea of a guy joining a couple is to add a bit extra to what the couple already enjoy.  Not take over and satisfy yourself.  Everyone should be relaxed,  comfortable and enjoy every minute,  not just a few minutes.   lol. 

Don't give up,  the diamonds are there,  dust them off. ??

I play on both sides of the fence here, as a single guy that has played with couples and also as the Male half of play couple. 

If we invite a guy to join us we/she usually have a good conversation beforehand so we usually get a good idea, if there is a bit of doubt or it's a blind meet it's not a deal breaker we simply set a limitation to an act like oral on her or the guy simply watching the first time like a kind of test... see if he really has the minerals.

Guys are forever talking themselves up on here .. over promising and then under delivering, usually the type that mention at sometime during the conversation that they will make the lady squirt etc...hasn't happened yet. ? Anyway it does provide laughing material.

We haven't had any really bad experiences just good ones or ones that are rather bland/forgettable rather than bad.

Interesting lol, Check out my profile ;) I'm keen for slow steady MFM,.. intact i prefer it slow and steady you get to enjoy it longer and create art ;)