How does one spot a fake profiler in this site? With or without photo,s ? Is there a way of weeding them out so others dont get caught up in the fake information that they put out there ? I think fake profilers are game players , they use others for their own advantages and win peoples trust to only have lies told to them ! How does one Be Aware ?
If it is a profile we are interested in we normally phone them. If it is a couple we ask to speak to both parties before meeting and that normally sorts the wheat from the weeds as they say. We normally meet for a coffee or a drink before playing to make sure they are who they say they are. Having said that we can often pick a dodgy profile, given that most of them are short on information.
Much like FireDragon, for us the easiest way to at the very least get a 'feeling' is by phone.
We have a playphone that is only used for contact for our playing and to be honest, when we give that number out we only tend to have contact around 40% of the time (across all the sites on which we are members).
But, if you do not have a second phone it is an issue so we would suggest that as a worst case, get a second elcheapo phone on a cheap plan and use that.
Aside from that, for us there are different types of alarm bells that start to ring from time to time but these may not be consistent across everyone, so it really is a lucky dip and hope type situation some times. Mind you, the longer you do this the more adept you will get from experience but never be perturbed as despite all of the 'wasting' time there will always be someone come along that more than makes up for any time wasted
the main one I find is only talking to one person of the couple. If the other is always in the shower, not here right now, just gone to the loo, doesn't like to cam, too shy to talk on the phone - it's likely to be a dodgy operator. I had one guy turn up, when it should have been a couple, tell me his wife was in hospital, but that could he get a bj, and maybe sex. And he thought I would fall for it?
I always insist on talking to both parts of the couple, on cam if possible. If someone is too shy to com on cam, then they are too shy to let it all hang out in bed, and is probably a dud root ;)
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