Age difference?

7 Jul 2006

I find that most folks in swinging/sex club scene are predominantly 35+ Is it because of some sort of mid-life crisis? Im 28 and started swinging about 4 years ago. I remember how difficult it was finding couples since I was only 24. For some strange reason, most couples didn't want to do anything with men in their early 20's. And I don't think the situation has changed at all. So tell me folks, What's wrong with young people?

7 Jul 2006

It's something I have noticed over the years. I don't think it's due to the midlife crisis or anything. But by that time you would be settled, your kids would be grown up. And now you can focus on yourself and they just want to spice things up. You know, trying out things before life fades away.

11 Jul 2006

I guess I understand..but what I don't understand is that so many couples are reluctent to meet with young men or couples. Lot of couples told us that we were too young! What is that supposed to mean? I thought this was all about opening doors to new experiences!!

12 Jul 2006

no its not mid life crisis as someone else said you hit your late 30 to 40 and you have more time on your hands because your kids have grown up and left home. no there is nothing wrong with a 28 year old. if you had been to the swingers party i went to last weekend at least half the guys there were your age and i would say the women were 40ish and older and none of them had a problem with going off with a younger guy. ;)

13 Jul 2006

Actually, I too have noticed a little age game there. At clubs I go to, most of the people are above 35+. Thinking about it, there's only like a couple of young guys there. We have no problem with young meat, I mean young Yeah, I guess it has lot to do with your circumstances, your family, your kids age..Everything comes into play a part.

25 Jul 2006

I feel that dating someone my own age is somewhat boring.
why is daying someone your age boring? I always kind of thought people with same age range will be able to communicate better..you know, no generation gap or anything..As far as age differences go, I too have noticed that. Maybe it's the ideal time...

29 Jul 2006

I didn't know about this. As I said before I'm just a beginner. Me and my bf are in our mid 20's and I hope that doesn't stop people! I always thought everybody liked young people. Maybe they don't like young people thinking they are very inexperienced.

2 Aug 2006

I too think people in early thirties will be active in sex the then young guys. I always prefer my partner should be experienced and elder to me as girls in thirties will be very caring and hot.

3 Aug 2006

I am also in my mid twenties and have noticed that older people are more into swinging. If I do come across a younger couple the guy is usually just excited to see two naked girls. It's a big turn off on how immature they act about the situation. Not all guys I don't want to offend anyone.

19 Aug 2006

You can see from my BIO that I am over 50 so I would like to tell you what I found out. I told my doctor that I was a swinger and sometimes had sex with women in their 20's and 30's. He warned me to be careful because it could prove fatal. But...if they die, they die :P

7 Sep 2006

My husband and I really do not care what age the swingers are, as long as they are adults. We really don't mind younger couples but I can say that sometimes they don't know what they are getting into and have a hard time when it comes down to getting into the action.

16 Oct 2010

I'm twenty-two, and I have been swinging for the last four years. I kind of fell into the scene, but I've converted a few of my closest friends into swingers through exposure. I've never had an issue with playing with older partners. In fact I enjoy a bit of maturity in those I swing with. But I have noticed that I am seen as a second-class player, simply for the fact that I am young. Add to that my single male status at most parties I attend (unless one of my friends is accompanying me that night) and I am effectively reduced to scenery. I am shallow enough to acknowledge that some women, and men, do 'check me out' at parties, but I am rarely approached.