well this site has been a disappointment
Not for us. We have been hooking up with your mrs while you are out chasing your tail. Damn shame that
I must say this original post is so far off the mark as far as swingers go , ffs mate most couples want to stay together the point of swinging is to allow sexual expression and other participants not an affair to ruin a relationship,
there seems more and more coming to this site with out a clew what swinging and relationships are all about ,
wake up australia
OKandQ you're right but don't forget that everyone has to start somewhere, just because you're at it already does not mean that other people still don;t have hard time talking to their wives and trying to open their relationship to play with others... it all takes time, as long as we're open to it we should be able to explore the good things in life ;-)
sure enough we all start somewhere , most couples start by discussing sexual wants and desires , but truthfully if you think an affair outside of your relationship due to unable to talk will help we wish you all the best of british luck but your doomed for failure before you start,
A better approach is to try to open communication channels either by meeting visiting watching anything can start the ball rolling watch some porn together with those free sites with all the categories and change themes a few times and ask who liked what or would you like to be that one.
But nothing good comes from deceit of out of bounds affairs in secret, you just risk everything when you may just want or need to expand your sexual experiences and it cant hurt to say so, if you cant say so maybe your in a dead end and time to set new rules, we have no issue with open relationships or any other outcome as long as its honest and informed for all concerned , generally if your in a relationship that should be the best thing in life already or at least could become it . cheers