Thoughts on bisexual husbands

Dometimes it is the type of gathering that sets boundaries, sometimes just a case of people holding back for a range of reasons.  

Many prefer more intimate settings, discretion being a very important aspect.

well said Funtimes81,

The tactic as you said has turned off lrig altogether about bringing in another guy. She is straight so the couple swap thing was never an option, we still have a good sex life so partner swapping isn't for us, we just wanted bi guys. To be blunt with guys I will let them see my privates  but they are just me with other guys and if the can't show the same then I usually don't bother trying to organise a play. Still happy to chat and all or if they are curious and want ro explore, I'll give them an opportunity to 's face it. With mobile phones a pic can be taken without the partners face just yours. All my pics are screen grabs from vids We made wirh the phone.. Easy as...

Yob

I am open with my wife.

She allows me to go and meet with guys. 

Then come home and tell her what we did to each other.

Very erotic.

very very lucky 

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hi my wife knows i'm bi although she hasn't done mmf with me , so where to now ?

 Same boat as you. For her it is just letting gi and be able to have sex with out an emotional connection. May I suggest you talk about it first making her understand that you live her and that being a bisexual doesn't mean you live her less. We have started slow and my male playmate understands that time is required till she gets her kit off. Out plays when she is present is so far as a spectator in oral sessions. Our next will take it a notch up and he will mount me. Hopefully she will give him a hand?. Once she is comfortable enough and she wants to have a ride, then i will just sit back and watch.

 please be me for the next step!

Am open with wife but doesn’t want to know or play  happy to let me play as long as I don’t bring anything home ?

I've been with plenty of couples. Some with openly bi males nd some that were hiding it or confused about their sexuality and how to broach it. And of course, some with straight males, and that's a mixed bag because some want no male to male touching of any kind and others like to guide my cock into their wife or partner's pussy or taste the juices off of my cock afterwards. And that's all fine with me. I view myself as an occasional extra in an established act and I try to add what I can to that dynamic while I'm apart of it. But I've definitely found that having a bi male who is open about is makes things easier, less complicated and naturally more fun due to the extra combinations of things you can do together. I get turned on knowing that the wife is turned on watching her man suck my cock or getting fucked. It's specially nice when they suck and /or rim me together. 

Then again, I can understand why some guys would be hesitant to open up about it with their partner- it can be a make or break thing in some relationships. And no males are still looked down on by a significant number of eople in modern society. Definitely nowhere near the acceptance levels of bi females. I myself am a bi top but I don't always feel in the mood for m2m play (almost always though lol) and I don't advertise myself as bi in my personal life or on the site because of those reasons. Some couples and even some single women are put off amd want nothing to do with me if they know I'm bi so I tend to be discreet about it until I gauge how they feel about it. And it's not like its a pre-requisite that I'll want m2m contact but alot of straight guys think I'll wamt to touch their dick and they are scared of how they'll feel and what that'll say about them. I can play straight or no depending on the situation and genuinely enjoy both but neither are absolutes in my mind. 

that’s very interesting that you don’t. Openly Identify as bi . Do you think more couples approach you as a result ? 

I definitely think it's easier for a couple to ask and if I am bi or if I'd be at all interested in exploring it because if I'm offended by it then no big deal. But being a single male on this site, I can't really afford to hinder my chances because there's a stigma attached to me already because of the behaviour or reputation of other single blokes. 

excellent point. as u say many are and don't openly identify and maybe its a good strategy. i will change my status and see the impact i think. if i list in my preferences bi friendly activities that might hint a bit  

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excellent point. as u say many are and don't openly identify and maybe its a good strategy. i will change my status and see the impact i think. if i list in my preferences bi friendly activities that might hint a bit  

 To be honest when I first look at a profile the location is my first look then I scroll down to seeking. If bi-male is ticked I will keep looking and may even send a message. In general conversation I don't advertise my sexuality and just tell everyone as sime people views on the whole Bisexual thing is still a tad shunned. Some still say that bisexual people are closet gay or lesbian and have no Idea that bisexuals are literally attracted to either sex( prolly should say sexes now as there are now more than two. But thats another thread to untangle) and are completely happy to play with just one or the other and even both at the same time.

Oh and BTW Dave I do get to dubbo often with work and sometimes it's an overnighter 

Cheer Yob

I dont think its how you present your profile guys, its about being honest, what you are, what you like

I get so turned on when we find ourselves in a sexual situation where my hubby feels comfortable exploring his bisexual side .. whatever it may be. I can't wait to find the perfect bi guy to fulfil one of my biggest fantasies with my hot hubby.

Certainly been a life long desire to pleasure both partners as well as playing the role of a bottom. Always been the bull in the room but secretly desired being the slut.

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Certainly been a life long desire to pleasure both partners as well as playing the role of a bottom. Always been the bull in the room but secretly desired being the slut.

 I tend to let things flow. Just get ground rules out of the way first. One pit fall is to concentrate too much on one of the partners. If the hubby is bisexual then put yourself into a position where he can see an "opening " and go for it. A favourite of mine is a 69 with the Mrs with me on top. Hubby now has two options, his mrs or me

Cheers Yob 

Fuck yes please 🔥🔥🔥

ist so hot when a woman understands that guys need cock too. Having a woman sucking a cock and invite a guy to suck it is such a turn on 

if only i could discuss it with my wife she won't give me any sex at all and sure as he'll wouldn't let me do it at all thats why i have to make my own bi meetings by myself for some relief

compulsory lol

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I get so turned on when we find ourselves in a sexual situation where my hubby feels comfortable exploring his bisexual side .. whatever it may be. I can't wait to find the perfect bi guy to fulfil one of my biggest fantasies with my hot hubby.

What is this fantasy you are referring to? I would love to know. 

My wife and I discuss it as a point of turn on. Would we both share a guy? Yes but her fear is that the guy would hang around and expect regular meets, when all she wants is a bit of fun (as do I) As I have said to her, there is someone out there that next time we are out and about or away for a weekend would gladly give her some fun, and me too. 

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My wife and I discuss it as a point of turn on. Would we both share a guy? Yes but her fear is that the guy would hang around and expect regular meets, when all she wants is a bit of fun (as do I) As I have said to her, there is someone out there that next time we are out and about or away for a weekend would gladly give her some fun, and me too. 

 yes I think your wife is like Jo but so far so good for us  

 Ohh those guys are out there, but then, a lot of work seperating the chaff from the wheat

oh i am not chaff i am prime lucerne

I am bi curious and looking for a nice couple to introduce me to some MMF bi curious play. Nothing too full on. I'm in Brisbane.

I'd like to consider myself 'wheat' too.....just looking for some spontaneous fun....if a repeat is possible, thats great, but certainly not expected......Bendigo Vic...

Perhaps, for us single biggest guys, the main thing is respect, not being pushy, be able to hold a conversation and create a safe and fun environment that adds to a couples dynamic, not overpowers it.

It isn't about us when we play with couples, it is about being lucky enough to be part of their play.

would like to find a regular to play with so we can please each other

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would like to find a regular to play with so we can please each other

 yes it would be nice to have a regular 

they are hard to find and when you try all you get is busy or they live far away

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would like to find a regular to play with so we can please each other

 yes it would be nice to have a regular 

 Yes, looking for the same here in Newcastle for myself and a lady friend into bi male play