I have put on shows with a lady friend at places like Club X, at the beach and in dogging locations. We enjoy guys watching and wanking their cocks to the sights & sounds of her wet pussy being played with, if there is an attraction then sometimes they might be allowed to get involved.
One of the biggest issues is guys assuming that because a couple are there then they automatically jump in and get involved in the action, nah nah nah ...old son...not on our watch it's not. They are there strictly to watch as observers unless I say otherwise, guys who are overly keen to offer their services are overlooked for those who are more reserved and respectful. We are there to serve mainly ourselves, we are not there to serve guys egos and physically get them off...that's what they have two hands for.
On the other side of the coin we both like watching too, we have watched other couples both outdoors and at orgy room in swingers clubs. The sights, sounds and smells are far better than watching porn....much more surreal than watching porn on a screen.
We tend to keep it unannounced and at random, been all good so far although large crowds can be unsettling. 1 or 2 is better.
We do arrange meets with guys, if that's going happen then I will approach them....definitely not them approaching me.
Do's:
Know your role and adhere to it.
Keep your distance until told otherwise.
Ask before touching.
Expect nothing, but hope to be pleasantly surprised.
Dont's :
Don't touch without asking is the golden rule.
Don't crowd and be pushy.
Don't be an idiot.
