Sydney seems to have gone a bit quiet

14 Jan 2013

I know the regular bunch of us.. We all know who we are.. That used to get out and cause mischief dogging mainly at silverwater and around homebush I know we have all with the silly season been busy.. But Sydney without us seems to have just gone really quiet on the dogging front... There seems to be a few more couples/single girls/males advertising they want to get out for a session but is anyone actually getting out there? I know I popped into silverwater last night for the first time in a while last night there wasn't too much happening a couple going for it in a car near me not sure if you are off here looked like it could have been a good show had the light been on ;) although there was a younger couple in a car (p plates) now guys you shouldn't have to be reminded don't pull up next to them flash your lights ect they are young and go to these spots to have sex in private no doubt have no idea what dogging is.. The guy in the 4wheel drive wake up. You ruin it for all of us.. Now back to the main question how do we get Sydney going again on the new year... ??

14 Jan 2013

Maybe we could use that big sign board and place an ad there... something like 'DOGGING HERE!'

14 Jan 2013

Quote by Dynamiteduo
Maybe we could use that big sign board and place an ad there... something like 'DOGGING HERE!'

Oh and a universal remote for the interior lights

14 Jan 2013

How bout this for a idea to spot people a sticker to put on the out side of the car that shows that you are a a good way to know about others

14 Jan 2013

We were at Silverwater on Saturday night, until just after midnight. There was a group of 8 or 9 guys having a booze up on the picnic tables, so we stayed on the other side. Drove back around from time to time, but no signs of packing up. A few cars came and went. A guy in a silver convertible was lurking around, but otherwise - nothing interesting to report. So we just stayed in our car and played together without interruption - even with the windows down. A brown? 4WD drove past us, even when our the passenger door was open and they had a good view - but they just kept going. Very quiet indeed - despite what we've read on these forums. Although, it's not the single guys that we are looking for. Not looking to join in with others. We just want to be voyeurs ourselves smile

14 Jan 2013

Now back to the main question how do we get Sydney going again on the new year... ??
Maybe organise a meet n greet to get likeminded people together and hopefully kick something bigger and better off smile

Never fear though, I'll stay away lol

14 Jan 2013

I've been to a few of these spots but have not seen any actual dogging yet unfortunately sad

14 Jan 2013

Was done deliberately whilst I was overseas (thanks myhotwife) love you both though!! So maybe we are due for another.. Matt and Megan you don't have to stay away there would be no shit stirring if you weren't there going on your form at Wollongong smile

So R n S x 2 and MnM should we get our little group together and put it out there for a meet n greet again obviously minus a few of the mistakes that were learnt last time :) Otherwise really it comes down to just get out there have fun!! I've been lucky to experience it both ways as a couple and a single guy and both ways we / i had fun and met loads of great people.. I personally think a lot of people sometime are too scared to take the chance they say what they say here but put them in a park and a stranger approaches they shit themselves.. Remember dogging is quite random and designed for all types couple/single/gay/straight it's all about having fun.. Take a chance sometimes could be the best thing you or both of you do..

14 Jan 2013

Yes sounds like an idea... Maybe on a day that it wont rain or that you around backinsydney....

14 Jan 2013

Hi newlysingle72 , We went down there too on saturday night. it was a bit hard to play with a heap of people in the park...

15 Jan 2013

We went down there tonight. When it got dark, we started to play a little under the gazebo. We were aware that at least one guy was on a picnic table behind us, but that was ok. But a guy arrived in a white 4WD, and as soon as we started kissing and cuddling, he got out and walked towards us, and kept doing laps back and forward. Something was a little uncomfortable about him, so we would stop each time he got near. The guy from the picnic table figured we weren't too comfortable so returned to his car. Eventually we walked back to our car and I got in the passenger seat while hubby stood at my open door. A couple of cars were around and the guy from the 4WD had gone back to his car. With my hubby's crotch within reach, I couldn't help but unzip him and quickly get back into action, while hubby stood there next to me. The guy from the picnic table drove back into the car park again, noticing we were playing smile

and pulled into a spot a few car spaces away. Not too sure how good his view was, but there would have been no doubt what was going on. No problems. Hubby was enjoying it, and I was happy to continue. In fact, we noticed that he had opened his door for a better view but made no attempt to approach. Then the 4WD guy appeared out of nowhere, walking orbits around our car. Each time he would get near, we stopped and let him pass. At one point, he got back in his car, and I turned on the interior light to find my phone - but the moment the light was on 4WD guy jumped out of his car and started walking towards us. So I quickly turned off the light and he walked away again. We would have continued, but hubby suggested we drive around the other side in the hope that 4WD guy would get the hint. However, as soon as we had drove back under the bridge and into the other carpark - there he was, following. We stopped around under the big billboard sign and 4WD guy simply drove around and parked right in front of us! So we drove around the carpark again. Once we stopped somewhere else, the 4WD soon followed. We drove back around to the other side again - noticing the other guy who had been watching had now left, only to have 4WD guy pull up behind us. So we just sat there. Lights off. Window up. Not playing. Nothing. So 4WD guy pulls his car in practically right beside us! We tried to simply out-wait him, but it was just plain annoying now. A guy on a motorcycle pulled in, aware that there was a couple sitting in the car and was trying to get a peek at what might be going on inside - but 4WD guy had put us off completely. So we drove back around the other side and sat in the shadows. Lo and behold, 4WD guy drove back around!! This time, another car had parked in the further most corner of the carpark away from everybody. This didn't deter 4WD guy who drove up on this car slowly, almost coming to a complete stop, shining his headlights directly in the side windows onto the poor occupant(s) of this car. We applauded to ourselves as he then drove off altogether. We waited another ten minutes, watching as other cars came and went. Then, wouldn't you guess? In rolled the 4WD guy again - doing the overly-slow drive by our car. Before he had a chance to turn around and drive past - we left. So to the guy(s) who may have caught the start of something fun - you need to know that the guy in the 4WD spoilt it. If we go back to the park, and we see him drive in - we will just leave. Sorry.

15 Jan 2013

Hey backinsydney Just read the post. As you know we have not been unable to play for a while and should be back very soon. Yes our group is great and best of all we are friends. Always chatting on the phone meeting up for lunch and obviously a lot of naughty fun. Our group has put on some amazing shows around Sydney and another one will be happening shortly. The thing with dogging is it is hit and miss for some. Speaking for ourselves we go dogging to be watched. In saying that Mrs Hotwife has to be comfortable who is watching and if she wants to do more she will. So if a guy is around walk up to us no problem. If you are told to move on please do. If you are not enjoy the show. If you get the signal from the wife move closer. Others couples prefere different things and yes this can confuse guys. To me if guys can't see that the couple is uncomfortable with their presence and doesn't move on he will stuff it up for others. The beauty of our little group is when we we go out their is 5 of us and we are I control and don't feel threatened in anyway. The girls are comfortable and who ever is around are dam lucky. If other couples want this type of atmosphere please message, backinsydney, dynamiteduo or my_hotwife and we can arrange to meet you.

15 Jan 2013

we have dropped off for a bit as we are moving house but don,t worry Sydney we will be back soon in a week or so hope to see some horny people out in the near future wink

15 Jan 2013

The beauty of our little group is when we we go out their is 5 of us and we are I control and don't feel threatened in anyway.
The girls are comfortable and who ever is around are dam lucky.

Well said..surely these guys who ruin things for people clearly have no understanding of how lucky they are. They are showing no respect for the ladies who obviously have to feel comfortable and relaxed to enjoy themselves.
I know I'm preaching to the converted here but had to say something. Stories like this really make me wonder how these guys treat women in general.

15 Jan 2013

Quote by backinsydney
I personally think a lot of people sometime are too scared to take the chance they say what they say here but put them in a park and a stranger approaches they shit themselves.. Remember dogging is quite random and designed for all types couple/single/gay/straight it's all about having fun.. Take a chance sometimes could be the best thing you or both of you do..

nicely put mate we were a bit like this at first but didn't take long to have fun and as even better when we got shown the ropes by a nice fellow dogger wink

15 Jan 2013

Very true backinsydney. It is can be nerve wracking, also for the guys, well it was for me lol

Last thing I want to do is walk up on a couple who are there just to have some quiet fun on their own. That is why the guides for doggers come in handy. ie light on, windows open etc. Even then though you still just have to use some common sense. After all it is supposed to be FUN for all involved .

15 Jan 2013

It's great that you have a group you are comfortable with myhotwife...I think if newer females/couples who haven't dogged before are nervous about the whole thing they should definitely get in contact with you to break them in!

15 Jan 2013

To us dogging is about being watched. We don't want to be watched we would do it at home with the blinds drawn. Do people go on web cam not to be watched. However it is up to the ladies if they want to play or ask someone they are not invited to watch. I remember we were out one day and this guy saw us and was watching. He was playing with himself from a distance. We even waved him over but he didn't approach. So things are not easy for couples either.

15 Jan 2013

Quote by newlysingle72
We were at Silverwater on Saturday night, until just after midnight.
There was a group of 8 or 9 guys having a booze up on the picnic tables, so we stayed on the other side. Drove back around from time to time, but no signs of packing up.
A few cars came and went. A guy in a silver convertible was lurking around, but otherwise - nothing interesting to report.
So we just stayed in our car and played together without interruption - even with the windows down. A brown? 4WD drove past us, even when our the passenger door was open and they had a good view - but they just kept going.
Very quiet indeed - despite what we've read on these forums.
Although, it's not the single guys that we are looking for. Not looking to join in with others. We just want to be voyeurs ourselves

Hi Newly
That was me in the silver convertible on Sat. Yes the large group of guys probably stopped a lot of action that night.
I don't like to approach anyone without some sort of signal unless I know them from on here. Normally if the want visitors they will let it be known :) that said I wish I had come closer. Maybe next time.

15 Jan 2013

Sydney... So lets see what comes of it.. Hopefully people will feel comfy now to come out now and know there are people that are genuine and willing to help

16 Jan 2013

so can we get some action at Balls Head this friday or saturday night or at Olympic park area?

16 Jan 2013

Wow... just been to silverwater.... I think the issue is that people think dogging is a bit like porn you see on the net... Well guys it's not..... If Single males need some tips, Maybe ask a few people on the site on how to approach other doggers.... backinsydney and jonibond are two guys which are good to ask. Also the guy in the silver convertible... Thank you for giving us some space and not getting out of the car and walking up to our windows. I was going to chat to you the second time we came back but you jumped back into your car. Just so you know me jumping up out of the car was a sign to say hi... have a chat and see what come of it. As a couple I know I personal like doing that while my partner in crime is nice and safe in the car. To the rest of the guys there who flocked around like seagulls after someone has tossed a chip at them (sorry backinsydney I just had to use that... ) that was a BIG NO-NO.... massive turn off, and honestly turned us off.... What was worst is then half of you walked around to the other side thinking that we wouldn't notice you.... WRONG MOVE..... Anyway enough of me.... Have fun everyone!!!!!

16 Jan 2013

Quote by Dynamiteduo
Wow... just been to silverwater....
I think the issue is that people think dogging is a bit like porn you see on the net...
Well guys it's not.....
If Single males need some tips, Maybe ask a few people on the site on how to approach other doggers.... backinsydney and jonibond are two guys which are good to ask.
Also the guy in the silver convertible... Thank you for giving us some space and not getting out of the car and walking up to our windows. I was going to chat to you the second time we came back but you jumped back into your car. Just so you know me jumping up out of the car was a sign to say hi... have a chat and see what come of it.
As a couple I know I personal like doing that while my partner in crime is nice and safe in the car.
To the rest of the guys there who flocked around like seagulls after someone has tossed a chip at them (sorry backinsydney I just had to use that... ) that was a BIG NO-NO.... massive turn off, and honestly turned us off.... What was worst is then half of you walked around to the other side thinking that we wouldn't notice you.... WRONG MOVE.....
Anyway enough of me.... Have fun everyone!!!!!

Haha too funny.. Rats with wings seagulls aren't they... Seems appropriate by the sound of some of these guys... Seriously gents that visit silverwater or any other spot in Sydney.. The start of this thread was why has Sydney gone quiet... Well after the past two nights at silverwater you all need a reminder how to behave and how to read dogging signs and learn some respect for couples... Honestly the majority of single guys that cause the problems are old enough to know better... Are you that desperate that you can't control how you behave.... ??? Go read what dogging is read the rules read the signals... And most of all learn to respect people/couples other doggers and grow up.. You will ruin it for it all... So act your age not your shoe size keep your penis in your pants until asked to get it out... It will be fun for all but only if you behave...

16 Jan 2013

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16 Jan 2013

To be honest these stories are turning people like me off it too as I don't want to turn up and give the wrong impression by other people's behavior! I'd like to just turn up and mind my own business and see what it's all about but I don't see that happening anytime soon

16 Jan 2013

just quietly, whereabouts in silverwater is this place. street name or landmark?

17 Jan 2013

I think it's Silverwater park which isn't hard to find. I am feeling very curious and want to head down to see what it's all about. I'm going to bring a lady friend, but unlike the dodgy single guy profiles who "say" they are going to bring a lady friend, I actually am going to haha (wasn't referring to you backinsydney)

18 Jan 2013

Have been to silverwater about 4 times in the last month and very quiete. Will be going around Tuesday night again after 10pm to see if there is any action.

18 Jan 2013

Any one heading out tonight?

22 Jan 2013

Quote by my_hotwife
If other couples want this type of atmosphere please message, backinsydney, dynamiteduo or my_hotwife and we can arrange to meet you.

Hi there dynamiteduo & my_hotwife,
We sent a message to both of you guys about being included in this group atmosphere you refer to, and are yet to receive any kind of reply (and you have met us before).
So, what gives?
Daniand