Lap High Beaming?

14 Oct 2010

Hi Guys, I'm noticing more and more that single guys are lurking around some of the local hotspots doing repeated laps with their high beams on? I guess they don't really frequent this site or even know what dogging is (because you'd think they would get the hint that the couples don't know what dogging is or simple just don't want the company by the 5-6th lap if they are actually looking for sex and not just trying to catch a glimpse of some bare skin). Unless their purpose is to be annoying and scare off couples trying to have some alone intimate time. The only reason why I bring this up is because myself and a few other couples moved around from a few different spots because we thought either security guards were doing their nightly patrols of the area until we realized it was the same old cars doing the same laps each week (and security guards don't usually do 8 laps every 20 mins of the same area). It has scared off a few really good couples and is becoming more and more prevalent that I'm scared that more couples will either get scared off or that it will attract unwanted attention (i.e. cops are doing random laps now of these area's wondering why there is so much traffic coming through at 1am and when they see the same cars entering/exiting only after a short period of time I'm sure they probably think either drug deals or something are going on). So I'm not going to degrade anyone's kink (if this turns u on, then by all means keep doing it - just know that if me and other people are recognizing you it's only a matter of time before the authorities flag you too, even though you aren't doing anything wrong). So I'm going to suggest (and would love any input/ideas) that all down under doggers maybe do something more than just leave their internal lights on - maybe something like putting a pair of panties (or maybe a t-shirt or shorts or something on the cars aerial to symbolize your looking for fun). I was trying to find ways of making it not so obvious to the casual observer and nothing so permanent like a sticker. But I'm even thinking that a colored piece of clothing could denote certain things (i.e. red means couple looking for more males, blue = single male looking for same etc?). This is my rant for today smile

and to the single male that did about 8 laps around the white holden commodore with "p-plates" around a certain location in melbourne (that shall go unnamed for fear of others jumping on the band wagon and cruising around) around 1:30-2:30am this morning (friday the 15th oct '10) you were in a dark colored mitsubishi colt? and stopped to have a quick ciggy near the toilets before jumping back into the car and doing another few laps :) So if you read this and it was you, please drop me a pm - I felt so sorry for you that I'd love to give you a HJ, BJ or maybe more...

14 Oct 2010

Hi Dreamz, I found your comments most interesting and valid. Will be interested to hear what others think. It wasn't me out there but would love to get a pm about where and when you might be playing and would love to see your panties hanging anywhere you like.

14 Oct 2010

I know only to well of what you write. The same shit goes on on the Gold Coast and if their not doing laps their shining their high beam in the window trying to see whos in the vehicle. There is no doubt that it scares couples away. Given its a public place theres not much that can / could be done. The one thing Im sure of is that they are a pain in the arse. The other point is that they should all read the protocols in place when it comes to dogging. Maybe that would be a good start.

14 Oct 2010

Same thing has been going on for a while where we go we still have the old magnets from another dogging site that we still use most people where we play know what we are after when they see them

15 Oct 2010

Here in Perth its car drivers doing skids in car parks or hoons meeting up in the same secluded spots that doggers park at. .

15 Oct 2010

Agree with the OP, I've seen it all too many times. Guys stopping with their lights side on to my car, guys parking opposite and leaving their car lights on with the beam straight into me or us, it's just ridiculous. With a lady friends once, first time she came out for some dogging fun, we had a guy following us from one parking lot to another, this before we even gave any sign of dogging, we literally just arrived, 2 minutes later he pulls in next to us. It's her first time, she's nervous, so we move down the street to a different spot, and he comes again, this went on for about another 3 or 4 parking lots, he'd give us no room, follow us around, and just stare straight at us, naturally, she hasn't been game to try again.

15 Oct 2010

It maybe useful to know the locations not specifically but by suburb and that way people know to be wary when out, ... not that you should'nt be anyway. Part of the appeal and thrill of dogging is that you are spontaneous. If people are organising to meet to dogg then it should be done via PM's rather than in the forum where it is in the public domain. The police actually cruise sites like this to gather info. I was spotlighted by the Police in a park in East Brighton on Tuesday night (12/10) at approx 10pm. I was just checking the park out to organise a meet there when this happened so I exited walked back to my car and left. Increased patrols occur when residents complain about excessive noise and cars appearing late at night or early in the morning hours. So be careful what you details you put into the public forum.

15 Oct 2010

We know what you mean about high beams , on our first trip out to try a bit of dogging near a bridge we had this old fart in a silver or light green (hard to tell in the dim light) BA falcon side on us with high beams on , we had only been parked for a matter of a couple of minutes when he drove in , also we had given no signs at the stage of being ready to play or had we a chance to even start to play Within seconds of him pulling up his interior light was on expecting a show , was so close would have had trouble even opening the left door , for all he knows we may have been a non dogging couple This idiot spoilt it for us on the night and also missed out out a show all because he was to stupid Melbcpl01

16 Oct 2010

Quote by Dreamz
Hi Guys,
I'm noticing more and more that single guys are lurking around some of the local hotspots doing repeated laps with their high beams on? I guess they don't really frequent this site or even know what dogging is (because you'd think they would get the hint that the couples don't know what dogging is or simple just don't want the company by the 5-6th lap if they are actually looking for sex and not just trying to catch a glimpse of some bare skin). Unless their purpose is to be annoying and scare off couples trying to have some alone intimate time.
The only reason why I bring this up is because myself and a few other couples moved around from a few different spots because we thought either security guards were doing their nightly patrols of the area until we realized it was the same old cars doing the same laps each week (and security guards don't usually do 8 laps every 20 mins of the same area). It has scared off a few really good couples and is becoming more and more prevalent that I'm scared that more couples will either get scared off or that it will attract unwanted attention (i.e. cops are doing random laps now of these area's wondering why there is so much traffic coming through at 1am and when they see the same cars entering/exiting only after a short period of time I'm sure they probably think either drug deals or something are going on).
So I'm not going to degrade anyone's kink (if this turns u on, then by all means keep doing it - just know that if me and other people are recognizing you it's only a matter of time before the authorities flag you too, even though you aren't doing anything wrong). So I'm going to suggest (and would love any input/ideas) that all down under doggers maybe do something more than just leave their internal lights on - maybe something like putting a pair of panties (or maybe a t-shirt or shorts or something on the cars aerial to symbolize your looking for fun). I was trying to find ways of making it not so obvious to the casual observer and nothing so permanent like a sticker. But I'm even thinking that a colored piece of clothing could denote certain things (i.e. red means couple looking for more males, blue = single male looking for same etc?).
This is my rant for today and to the single male that did about 8 laps around the white holden commodore with "p-plates" around a certain location in melbourne (that shall go unnamed for fear of others jumping on the band wagon and cruising around) around 1:30-2:30am this morning (friday the 15th oct '10) you were in a dark colored mitsubishi colt? and stopped to have a quick ciggy near the toilets before jumping back into the car and doing another few laps :) So if you read this and it was you, please drop me a pm - I felt so sorry for you that I'd love to give you a HJ, BJ or maybe more...

16 Oct 2010

yes i have noticed the drive arounds and it has stopped me from going to a few places as it starts to attract too much intrest from the wrong groups but if any know of some places to go please notify me and i will turn up discretely

17 Oct 2010

Good dogging session last night in Silverwater Park, total absence of cruisers and lurkers. No high beam hoons to report!