This is a forum that seems to generate a lot of interest but it is hard to know how successful it is. It is also hard to seperate the wheat from the chaff.
I agree with not posting too much information with regards to times and locations. This forum could be used to post your intentions and more detailed information can be exchanged via PM. This allows us all to find the "real" people who are genuine about this activity.
Just a short reply post saying you had fun or it was a no show would surely be of help to all.
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How about posting results of your attempts.
On Friday morning I put out a call on this forum to anybody to PM me if there was any dogging going on that night and to give me the locations, times etc. This was for the east, south east and south of Melbourne.
I did not get one PM. There was surely something going on that night across these regions and my request for information was very polite.
I will keep trying as I am new to Swingers Heaven and I understand trust has to be developed.
But I do sense from other peoples comments that single men are perhaps looked down on a bit and there is possibly a secret society.
Warming the Bed
Quote:"single men are perhaps looked down"
On the contrary, they are hard to come by and have a habbit after asking a million questions of not turning up.
My guess is, that they just dont want it.
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On Friday morning I put out a call on this forum to anybody to PM me if there was any dogging going on that night and to give me the locations, times etc. This was for the east, south east and south of Melbourne.
I did not get one PM. There was surely something going on that night across these regions and my request for information was very polite.
I will keep trying as I am new to Swingers Heaven and I understand trust has to be developed.
But I do sense from other peoples comments that single men are perhaps looked down on a bit and there is possibly a secret society.
Not a lot happens this way it seems, and like you, a polite question does not even engender a response when attempting to understand the local scene in Penrith some 150k away.
We remain hopeful tho that one day we will stumble on the right location and at the right time
Sexpert
As one of the posters said above "trust has to be earned", and I would think so does respect.
As suggested if a play report is posted then people know how things went - maybe another forum called "Play Reports" could be created - and then if things didn't happen then a quick note saying why things didn't happen should also be posted.
If you say you are going to be there and for a reason you cant make it you should let the the organiser know, and likewise if you're an organiser and circumstances change an effort to let people attending know should also be made. If we all respect te time and efforts being made the genuine doggers will all be a lot happier and for single males who are genuine and respectful - the single male stigma will not be a problem.
Jus my thoughts, based on my experiences
Be safe, be careful and have fun
South Aussie
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This is a forum that seems to generate a lot of interest but it is hard to know how successful it is. It is also hard to seperate the wheat from the chaff.
I agree with not posting too much information with regards to times and locations. This forum could be used to post your intentions and more detailed information can be exchanged via PM. This allows us all to find the "real" people who are genuine about this activity.
Just a short reply post saying you had fun or it was a no show would surely be of help to all.
well now_or_never you know about how our play went. it would be nice tho for people to let us know who are no shows or who are time wasters.
The Karrobs,
Hi,
If you are venturing down this way send me a PM and I will do the best to give you information you need.
I have always tried to do a recce of a place during the daytime. It is far easier to pick a good spot then but that was when the wife was coming along and I always wanted to know the ins and outs in case anything went wrong. Mind you having said that its amazing the difference driving into the same place at night and keeping you bearings.
well, we did send a pm to one who further up has been "putting out calls". asking if they might like to find out when and where and be involved.
And we never heard a word lol.
The funny thing is we never do when we message people who are looking, wishing to show off or similar. We dont wish to invite everyone, but as a couple we do find it very frustrating also to either post or reply to messages only to hear no more ???
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well, we did send a pm to one who further up has been "putting out calls". asking if they might like to find out when and where and be involved.
And we never heard a word lol.
The funny thing is we never do when we message people who are looking, wishing to show off or similar. We dont wish to invite everyone, but as a couple we do find it very frustrating also to either post or reply to messages only to hear no more ???
We were going to see if you guys wanted to come dogging with us cause we are the real deal.............ppl on here can vouch for us..........but it appears your in a different state to us.
TOTAL BUGGER
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well, we did send a pm to one who further up has been "putting out calls". asking if they might like to find out when and where and be involved.
And we never heard a word lol.
The funny thing is we never do when we message people who are looking, wishing to show off or similar. We dont wish to invite everyone, but as a couple we do find it very frustrating also to either post or reply to messages only to hear no more ???
Darn... wish you messaged me then hehe.
Warming the Bed
Quote by gigglynurse
well, we did send a pm to one who further up has been "putting out calls". asking if they might like to find out when and where and be involved.
And we never heard a word lol.
The funny thing is we never do when we message people who are looking, wishing to show off or similar. We dont wish to invite everyone, but as a couple we do find it very frustrating also to either post or reply to messages only to hear no more ???
Well, thats just the way it goes here, guys want to know every thing and then never respond, but also we sent our last PM to hrnykinkycouple and never got a response.
Park on Brisbane Corso between Fenton & Princess Streets seems the pick of the area. Be quiet and turn headlights off in the unsealed carpark as a house near by. Move into the grassed park, away from the car park and house.
The more heavily sheltered section of the park on the other side of the bridge, up the T J Doyle Memorial Drive near Gladstone Road is not good as homeless natives are lurking in that area. On dusk or dawn, it would be better at that location.
Went to Griffith Uni, Nathan Campus by 9pm, great anywhere dark there.
Hi I would love to join u on tuesday night pm me if u want
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Park on Brisbane Corso between Fenton & Princess Streets seems the pick of the area. Be quiet and turn headlights off in the unsealed carpark as a house near by. Move into the grassed park, away from the car park and house.
The more heavily sheltered section of the park on the other side of the bridge, up the T J Doyle Memorial Drive near Gladstone Road is not good as homeless natives are lurking in that area. On dusk or dawn, it would be better at that location.
Went to Griffith Uni, Nathan Campus by 9pm, great anywhere dark there.
Sex God
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Quote:"single men are perhaps looked down"
On the contrary, they are hard to come by and have a habbit after asking a million questions of not turning up.
My guess is, that they just dont want it.
Have to agree there walwal on the odd occasions we have sort after a single male to join us , there are so many that are all talk and when it comes to actualy meeting they go all quiet and dont respond or meet up
Maybe its a case of ohh no i have a chance getting out from behing the computer and doing something and they chicken out
Recently we sort after a male and it took us 3 weeks and uncountable messages to find a guy that would meet
We think its the 99% of talkers and wannabees make it bad for the 1% that genuinely want to meet
Melbcpl01
Was at Turner's Camp road near the dump turnoff on way to Bribie, only 1 campervan parked way up back, closed down for night, not wanting action. Then closest we've gone to any proof that we are the only ones, two secondhand looking white sedans drove in as we were giving up. In convoy, they drove down the access road and parked at the front of the carpark. They stayed in their cars for a while. The female partner of this profile thought there was a female in one of the cars and wound down her window for a better look but no one showed themselves. The male partner of this profile was frustrated also and thought about being loud and breaking dogging norms to yell out but thought if these people are not keen, then too bad.
Sex God
Went to the local cinema tonight , very quiet night there with only a couple of guys that turned up and left , was only one guy there when we went in he didnt stay long after
We decided to have a play and chance someone walking in on us but no such luck
Ahhh well way it goes but thats the luck of dogging hey , that chance meeting but we still left happy and bit more relaxed than when we went in
may try a weeknight and see how it goes sometime soon
Melbcpl01
Hi I put a post on for saturday night as I had a female friend interested in some dogging I got 1 msg but that was late we had allready been to a location and had some wild sex in the car and on the bonnet.
we were hoping for a couple of female to show up so she could put on a show for the boys
We might try a mid week one this time and see if we get a response
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Went to the local cinema tonight , very quiet night there with only a couple of guys that turned up and left , was only one guy there when we went in he didnt stay long after
We decided to have a play and chance someone walking in on us but no such luck
Ahhh well way it goes but thats the luck of dogging hey , that chance meeting but we still left happy and bit more relaxed than when we went in
may try a weeknight and see how it goes sometime soon
Melbcpl01
Hi Melbclp, You guys sound very intersting! i live around the same postcode wher you guys are from and pretty much visit the same dogging places you guys go to, i guess i have been unlucky every time i have been out not to catch a glimpse of dogging, dont know if it really happens or if i am just unlucky................... I have also been to the local cinemas nothing goes on there as well expect for heaps of guys ...................
i would like to meet either of you guys for a chat and take it from there, Unfortunately i cant post a pic of my self due to personal and proffesional reasons but i gaurantee you wont be disspointed when you see or meet me in person.......
pm me if you guys are interested in meeting
Sex God
Hi Melbclp, You guys sound very intersting! i live around the same postcode wher you guys are from and pretty much visit the same dogging places you guys go to, i guess i have been unlucky every time i have been out not to catch a glimpse of dogging, dont know if it really happens or if i am just unlucky................... I have also been to the local cinemas nothing goes on there as well expect for heaps of guys ...................
i would like to meet either of you guys for a chat and take it from there, Unfortunately i cant post a pic of my self due to personal and proffesional reasons but i gaurantee you wont be disspointed when you see or meet me in person.......
pm me if you guys are interested in meeting
Hey Gazza yeh we do have simular postcodes just oppisite sides of Melbourne infact yours is the MrsMelbcpls old postcode lol , we like the chance meeting over arranged meets adds a bit more excitment into it , would your partner be comming along aswell ?
Cheers Melbcpl01
i would like to meet either of you guys for a chat and take it from there, Unfortunately i cant post a pic of my self due to personal and proffesional reasons but i gaurantee you wont be disspointed when you see or meet me in person.......
pm me if you guys are interested in meeting
Hey Gazza yeh we do have simular postcodes just oppisite sides of Melbourne infact yours is the MrsMelbcpls old postcode lol , we like the chance meeting over arranged meets adds a bit more excitment into it , would your partner be comming along aswell ?
Cheers Melbcpl01
Forum Virgin
Hi MelbClp,
I sent you a PM, please check it out.
