Warming the Bed
Or do people just avoid single males?? I am sick of getting couples making out there interested but then when it come so the crunch of organising something they just ignore the MSG!! If it
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Dogging does it even happen!!
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Mate, I honestly believe dogging exists but only a very limited amount of people are involved and they try to just keep it within themselves.
I am sick to death of sending private messages too and being ignored. Single males are treated with contempt. And why do couples want pictures of you for dogging purposes. For goodness sakes, some of us simply cannot put a photo up for security/occupational purposes. And when it comes to dogging, there is the option of just having males look and not play unlike swinging. Do these couples want 6 Bradd Pitt lookalikes standing around there cars.
You can go to places that are publicised hoping for something to happen but all that happens is you get another 20 cars full of single males all itching for something to happen too.
The dogging is obviously taking place at other spots that only the "limited amount" of people know about.
We agree with you guys, our idea of dogging is I sippose a little riskier but all the more exciting, its about anonimity, strangers in the night, exhibitionism, we dog regularly, we dont discriminate, sometimes we organise it and sometimes after a good night out we stop and hope someone gets lucky. We see these advertisiments too, we agree its not dogging, its swinging outdoors. So for anyone in SA feel free to contact us.
Sexpert
G'day Exhibitcple
I also like the spontaniety of dogging, the expectation of something happening, the "thrill of the chase" so to speak. Would love to know where you play so I can keep an eye on them and maybe one day, by chance meet up
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South Aussie
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gentlemen wake up. the average dogger is border line stalker and unfortunately thats the truth of it. we play regularly over a long period . if you wonder why your looked down think about it.
I disagree. I think there are some borderline stalkers who are also dabbling in the dogging 'scene' but I don't believe your average male dogger is a stalker.
As the now single half of a previously very active dogging couple, we shared some great experiences with random guys, and a few couples too, who were in the right place at the right time. We also had some bad moments with those who clearly are creepy and aggressive in their search for a bit of voyeuristic action. Not to mention that there are a few liars on this and other dogging related sites, presenting themselves as couples, when they are absolutely not - or misrepresenting their age by 20 years or so.
The majority (for us) however, were pleasant, clean and respectful men.
It does happen but you cant just go out to a site and find dogging in the first few minutes, I lived in the UK where dogging is way more popular and have a fair bit of experience at it but even then 9 out of 10 attempts is a waste of time . I have came across couples dogging in Australia purely by accident, what I mean is more accident by design than actually planning a meeting beforehand. From previous experience (in the UK that is) I would often note likely places in Sydney where such behavior takes place (often unlisted) but I had that gut feeling. I often would maybe park in places during day or in the early evening and go for a Nature walk (I don't have a dog as an excuse) and so I would maybe come across plenty of gays... so I just walk away no harm done. But on a few occasions I have came across couples not pre-arranged but just by luck, some people are just exhibitionists and don't really intend on dogging but as long as they don't mind being watched then I dont mind watching.
But have to agree there are too many pricks that ruin it for everyone else.
But have to agree there are too many pricks that ruin it for everyone else.
Warming the Bed
We have only just found out about this site from through people we met from another site..... won't mention the name! But let it be said that we travelled to Melbourne recently and met up with a few 'doggers'........ one session was a daytime picnic in a park where we met two guys (was supposed to be 3). Both guys enjoyed our picnic for about 2 hours! Although there were a couple of other cars in the carpark, we were not disturbed at all. Great fun and will do it again!
Another session was a with a different 2 guys at a lookout one evening. Unfortunately it was a little windy/chilly, but a champagne some chat and then an hour or so sexy fun! There were a couple of other cars at the far end of the car park, but they never made their way towards us, even with our interior light on and the doors open!
Bottom line... you have to be in the right place, with the right people at the right time! Single guys will have more difficulty in finding people than will ladies or couples.... and remember there are never any guarantees. Sometimes you may find a dogger but for whatever reason he/she/they are not comfortable and the session can end before it starts. Be patient, be respectful, adhere to boundaries/rules and say thankyou!
Ohh and if you do end up at a dogging session and there are people there making a nusance of themselves.... politely take them aside, tell them the rules and protocol. If they are real brainless and don't understand, then move them on otherwise you will all miss out, as the people initiating the dogging session will pack up and leave!
Have had 3 confirmed dogging encounters over the last 2 years where I have met people who were at a location for the same reason I was, I think I just missed out on a forth during the week. On Thursday night about 7pm I visited a location in west Sydney that is unlisted there was no one about ( had success there in the past though).
Went of to a few other locations and got something to eat, returned to the first location at about 8:30pm to to check it out.... now this place is a dead end and really you cant see any cars unless you drive right to the end. I was expecting no one to be there but as I got close 3 cars with what I think was 3 couples (at least 1 couple from what I could see in one car the other 2 cars might have had either couples of singles) were just leaving. They did not all leave straight away but seem to pull into the side of the road for maybe a chat, I thought at the time I might have startled them but from the amount of freshly dumped tissues (about 6) I think I had just missed out by a matter of minutes as it seemed that a good time was had by all and they had just finished.
It does happen but it is all about being at the right place at the right time.
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I have lived in Northampton, UK and dogging was existent. Would simply go to a known dogging spot and you would have an abundant of females walking up to your car. Single males were looked upon as gold (most of the ladies stated that.) Come Sydney, no luck. Message with proper header, paragraphs hell i even do spell check now. Make sure my grammar is correct. Still no luck lol.
In Australia i have come to the conclusion that dogging does not happen. So the next best thing might be the gay scene ;) 
Sexpert
This is th male half here and I dog as a lone male and as a couple. Brisbane based but together we do planned outings and unscheduled and have to say the planned works better than unscheduled in public places....problem is that the guys on here dont realise the girl still has preferences....age, looks, numbers, activities etc doggings not a free for all for those that dont put effort in. Ive been fortunate enough to have had atlest half a dozen doggin experiences on my own without Jess in the past 12 months or so _ guys just hang in there and ull have fun
