Beach Etiquette

Would you try and make small talk with a couple in an open sun-tent?

2 Feb 2013

We would like to know other doggers views and tactics for hook-ups on the nudist beaches. Looks like going overseas has sent Mrs Wa into orgasm deathroll. Besides tanning up she has been turning me on and making me go crazy! I would like to know how people here go about dogging/picking up on nudist beaches. Not sure if we have already cum across people on here but either we are impatient or it's a slow dance to have some fun. You arrive on the beach, pitch your sun tent and start to enjoy life for the day. As the people walk up and down the beach looking around, which Mrs WA enjoys, it seems a slow and drawn out process. I am sure most of the men are there for the perve and the woman love giving them the view. I know Mrs WA loves letting the men perve on her body, she enjoys their attention, even if its not going further. Sometimes it has taken 3 or more laps of a man to walk pass before he says hello or makes eye contact while perving for Mrs WA to give them a smile. I think everyone should slowly walk up the beach, saying hi to all as they pass and see what they get in response? I know in passing us you would always get a friendly hello, an invited perve and small talk. Then it would be up to Mrs WA to what she wanted to do next and how it would be offered. So with small talk you get a perve and a bit of fun and you move on! Be asured Mrs WA just got a little bit wetter! If she starts to lighty flirt with you, you're in for a little bit of a show. If you are asked to sit and chat you're in for light play and/or to be examined further :-) If your invited into the tent after that, you're a good talker and/or your her type. So for at least the doggers, hanging around, sitting close, walking up and down the beach is just a waste of time. When you are in the mood all it takes to get things rolling is a "Hi" and see what happens next. Yes Mrs WA has said the first Hi to put the unsure in motion but is a bit hard walking down the beach then heading back to the tent. We usually find our spot, not so close to the "normal nudists?" so not to offend or make visual to the public. We are the kind of people who turn up, try and get some sort of response as we find our place and if nothing happens in a time frame we leave to seek new chances. We love the "Cat and mouse" game with every maybe which gets Mrs WA wetter but it's all that wasted time inbetween. Well we look forward in hearing other people's views and maybe get a better understanding how to fast track the hook-up. I'm not sure why but when entering and exiting the beaches, not many people say hello or make eye contact? I think it should be more friendlier as we all agree its fun to be naked :-) See you on the beach! P.S Make contact with the male first, he is there to help and always ask before doing!

2 Feb 2013

[quote="Wife_Access"]We would like to know other doggers views and tactics for hook-ups on the nudist beaches. It might help you to mention what the Name of the actual beach that your pitching your tent at is called? Just in case your wondering why things have been rather slow in getting people past your tent. Victoria has many nudist beaches , some well known & some not so well known , so it might pay to say what actual beach you will be attending , not just state that you will be at a Nudist Beach ! Which One ??? Location, Location , Location ^0^/ Mrs WA ;-) G'day = small talk lol

2 Feb 2013

After having spent a huge amount of time on nude beaches world wide I would say two things 99% of us couples on the beach are interested in other couples, not single males, so that is why you will find single males are a bit slow and weary to make contact, and rightly so as most are a f..ing pain on the beach and just perv... so can I suggest you dont play coy, ... if a couple or single male walks past and your interested, simply smile at him and call him/them over, or get up and go chat. if you like him/them then take it further but discretely, in your tent. second thing is most nudist beaches are just that, nudist beaches, not swingers clubs. Most wil have young familys on them, textiles, non-swingers etc so please be discrete, take it into the dunes or bushes or your tent otherwise sooner or latter someone will complain and if enough complain they will close the beach and then I will cry...lol. have fun, be naughty, but don't do it in general publics view pls.

2 Feb 2013

mmm WA this is why when we go to beach we get hounded because ppl like you guys are sending the message we are all there to fuck guys, in fact most r not. We r there to enjoy the sun yes we get frisky but def dont want a line of guys walking up and down the beach just to make ppl feel uncomfy. This might sound wierd coming from a cpl that does show on this site and are looking for fun, but out on the beach we should be able to relax.

3 Feb 2013

Quote by coasties2
mmm WA this is why when we go to beach we get hounded because ppl like you guys are sending the message we are all there to fuck guys, in fact most r not. We r there to enjoy the sun yes we get frisky but def dont want a line of guys walking up and down the beach just to make ppl feel uncomfy. This might sound wierd coming from a cpl that does show on this site and are looking for fun, but out on the beach we should be able to relax.

I think all nudist love the perve and like all dogging is open play area for meets. With the nudist beaches Mrs WA can sample the goods before accepting and if in a tent, can see any harm. Who is in the wrong, us fucking in a sun tent or the noisy/perve looking in to see what we r doing? Yep the noisy perve who is looking!
We like the naked woman form as it turns men on, can't see how a nudist doesn't get stimulated looking at a naked woman? I agree with most that a naked man isn't a good sight but woman :-).

3 Feb 2013

Would you invite people in for sex in your sun tent on a normal clothed public beach? If it's discrete enough to do it at a clothed beach, then doing it on a nude beach should be fine too. But if you wouldn't do it on a public beach then please don't do it at a nude beach either.

3 Feb 2013

I must say this is quite a valid discussion for a change. Thanks to all who have had their day so far, very informative and correct in my opinion. On one hand I relate to and congratulate wife access' initial post. Wifey clearly has a thing for exhibitionism and a hearty sexual appetite! No one here wants to deny either. On the other hand, we have those nudists who are purely in it for the pleasure of feeling natural in a beautiful environment, who perhaps fear they will loose their environment if the local "prudes" report "unwanted" sexual activity, I say "unwanted" because I assume these people don't actually visit the beach themselves.... Just want to get rid of the people on it. And at that point, I have been to point impossible. To see anything decent you would have to actually be in the nude beach area in the first place. It is fairly well protected. Again, the children on beaches comes up, but hey let's assume we're all intelligent adults. If there are kids there, perhaps it not a day for sexual activity, because kids are kids and they will find you wherever you hide. As for my opinion on the original pole, as a single male I would not be keen to approach a couple on the beach as such or a single woman for that matter (no offense gents). Basically because as much as I find them an attractive sexual partner I assume like most of the posters they are there for some sun and a bit of a show. Not purely sex. And to agree with the earlier point it would be sad to see all the women disappear from the beaches because of guy after guy trying to "share a towel". So please WA, use a smile and a friendly hi to attract people you think you may like. I know I would love a smile from wifey. Look forward to seeing you all out there soon!!

3 Feb 2013

We have done it in a public spa with at least 6 other people in it :-) So yes

8 Feb 2013

A very good discussion has been had by all. Valid points all round. I can understand both sides, if I can put it that way. I would welcome the chance to have a closer look at a beach, but it is the dilemma of the (single) male to approach a couple or single female. I go to show, but to have clothes free time, and also hoping to catch a glimpse of the figures au natural ;-) Heres to a good time that can be had by all, in whatever guise that may be. Well, im off to the non clothed beach tomorrow. Who knows who I'll bump into!

8 Feb 2013

Hey all...thanks for this post! we are big fans of a trip to a nude beach...particularly point addis in vic (imagine how much better it would be if melb didn't have australia's shittiest beach weather!!..but we digress) and were there today and had a great day. Yes we are cool with ppl having a bit of a perv..to be honest we do it too clothed or not...and yes we do sneak off into the dunes and have a play when we feel like it but would never do such a thing if families were about...usually we save that as an end of day treat when the beach is pretty deserted and never assume that anyone else would want us imposing our sexual play upon them so make sure we are discreet and find a hidden place to get off or if thats not a available we wait till we get home... Just to provide sum perspective from a cpls point of view we have no probs with single guys or other cpls having a look, having a smile or saying hi and the occasional quick chat...and yes we are open to the idea of finding a voyeur if we click and the environment is safe and appropriate. But we do want to say that unfortunately there are usually a few guys that seem to be oblivious to the fact that they are being creepy and ultimately our main aim in being at the beach naked is to enjoy the sun and surf on our skin..feel free and spend some much valued time together...not have you walk up to us with a hard on and stand right next to us leering while we are obviously just having a dip in the shallows..(sorry just one of the annoying things from today). Also everytime we are at the beach its weird if the same guy ends up with his towel a cpl of meters away from us even tho the beach is pretty much empty - ?? Anyhow to all the other guys who are content walking by at a respectable distance having a peek yes we are totally cool with it and chances are we are having a peek right back and glad to see as many ppl as possible enjoying a nudie day at the beach - its the best...feel free to say hi but know when to keep going on your way...hope everyone is cool with our rant and love to all those that are true to the vibe of what a nude beach is all about....freedom and fun!!

14 Feb 2013

I have been going to Maslin beach in Adelaide since the early eighties when people understood that a day on the beach in an environment where there is not a house or sign of civilization in site, on a beach so beautiful it could be a deserted island, with friends or partner, with a snack and perhaps a wine without getting sand in your pants because you did n't have to wear any, . . . was simply a wonderful way to spend the day! Here's the thing . . . . . we do not want everyone who walks up the beach 'saying hi to all as they pass'! If you are in the market put a sign up on your sunshade that says 'looking for a guy to fuck wife in tent' but stop promoting the rest of us as if we were couples at a swinger's party. Those that have attended swinger's parties know the rules and treat all with more respect than we get on that beach. We are with 'coasties2', we are tired of pathetic twats hounding us, choosing a spot right next to us on sparsely populated beach, staring at us and continuously walking up and down the beach pretending they suddenly need exercise! Last week we saw a guy wearing what looked like a pair of Speedos with a hole in the front (like crotchless knickers) with his dick sticking out the hole. Piss off! We notice couples tend to group together in desperate attempts to insulate themselves from the creeps but what do the creeps do? Of course they plant themselves smack in the middle of the couples, uncomfortably close, when there is an entire beach mostly unpopulated. Yes it's a beach, not a swingers club! Would 'twincam' approach a couple on Glenelg beach?! (major public conventional beach in Adelaide) Would a couple want him approaching them on Glenelg beach. . . . . . . probably not! Just as most or certainly we don't want him approaching us on our local nudist beach! The nude beach is not a swap meet. If you are horny, go get a girlfriend, toss off or buy a hooker, but what ever you do, stay away from us. We have decided that this weekend we will go to Glenelg. Unfortunately we will have to wear bathers but never mind, at least there we can enjoy our own company; we might even be able to kiss without some letch assuming my kissing my wife is an invitation for him to fuck her. Perhaps I'll finger fuck her because sometimes couples do that sort of thing. No one will see us, and no one will know. I hope one day soon not a single woman or couple goes to our nude beaches and all of the 'sudden male sun lovers' will take a good look at themselves and realize what pathetic twats they have been and what they have destroyed for so many!

14 Feb 2013

well said playtime and manhattan, while i also love looking at naked bodies that doesnt mean i want to fuck them all and can show respect, wife access you can enjoy your fun but im just saying behaviour like that does promote the bad behaviour that scares so many off. We go to samarui beach and i just hate when a 4x4 pulls up with a sinlge guy in it and then he just sits there in his car, or sneaks off over the hill so he can try and cop a perve from behind us. Anyone can see these ppl arent there for the sun and sea but only to dont mind someone looking as they walk or drive past in their enjoyment of a day at the beach but not idiots who just creep us out

17 Feb 2013

Very interesting discussion.
My wife and I have been to quite a few nude beaches and I thought I'd chime in on the basis of our experiences, predominantly at beaches in Victoria and Far North Queensland.
For us, the nude beach experience is an undeniably sexual one. However, it is a balance of that sexual energy whilst being mindful of not behaving in a manner likely to jeopardise the beach for the enjoyment of others, especially those (with that unmistakable all over tan) for whom nudism is a legitimate lifestyle choice. The loss of legal nude beaches due to inappropriate behaviour would be devastating for committed nudists, but also for the occasional sun-seekers (like us).
The arousal for us, for the most part, is driven by the exhilaration of the exhibitionism; bringing the intimacy of being naked into a public, anonymous and safe space. Combine that mental stimulation with the physical sensation of the sun and the water on your bare flesh, and you are in for an amazing day.
In my view, how one is to conduct themselves at a nude beach is an uncomplicated question, and requires only the simple exercise of the appropriate discretion and subtlety. It's not hard to read signals such as eye contact and general body language. But it's equally simple, and no less critical, to be mindful of who else is around and what is appropriate at that time.
The first time my wife went topless was a huge thrill for us both, despite the fact that she left her very skimpy bikini bottom on. I'd seen how much she enjoyed being admired at clothed beaches. I'd chose spots beside groups of guys, and she would often position herself to afford a better view. She was very subtle, but I could sense what she was doing, and we were both highly aroused by it. But being topless was just amazing; what was once private and intimate was very public, and extremely arousing for us both. Men would walk past gazing at her mostly naked body, and neither of us had any problem with that as it was done without making her feel uncomfortable. She enjoys that kind of attention, but it must be done sensibly.
I've waded out into the water and quietly looked on as she lay on her back, eyes closed, whilst guys walked past her, slowing to look and admire her, but not saying or doing anything that would cause concern. In all, simple, harmless fun.
On another occasion I remember a guy moving toward her in the water, and she wasn't moving away from him - far from it in fact, as she kept her breasts in full view above the water line (thus indicating her arousal and interest). Actually, it's pretty hot how much she enjoys keeping her breasts in view above the water as guys wade past, but I digress… I'd seen this guy enter the water earlier, and suffice to say he had a physical presence that had all the women watching him closely! I drifted away and allowed some space as they waded in each other's direction. They didn't get close enough to make any contact, and nothing happened in the end - but it didn't need to. The sexual tension was hugely arousing, and it was a very subtle, safe and inoffensive moment (that brought explosive orgasms later that night when we got home). It was the subtlety of that moment that made it memorable.
Our craziest experience broke all of the rules. We were heading home on our way to Cairns airport and stopped off for a quick swim. A guy approached us in the water, and started talking to us whilst slowly moving towards her. Long story short, they ended up playing with each other under the water. On one view, this felt like the wrong thing to do at an established nude beach, but nobody could see what they were doing under the water at that depth, and we were a fair way out from shore, so it still felt discreet. I looked around at the tiny handful of adults (there were no kids) scattered at the beach that day (the weather wasn't great, which made us stand out as non-locals I guess!), and nobody was looking at us, so it felt ok. Fundamentally it was probably not ideal conduct, but it was a hell of a way to send us back to cold Melbourne.
The punch-line of this oversized post is simply to exercise discretion and be subtle. Be conscious of your surroundings and especially mindful of never doing anything to cause concern to others. If we lose the liberating opportunities these beaches offer us, it will be a significant loss indeed.

17 Feb 2013

My apologies for earlier not clarifying my statement about being able to approach people. I do very much understand everyones reasons for attending our wonderful locations, and I do not go to try to hook up. It was not meant to imply that I'm approaching all and sundry to hope for "hello, sit down etc"when in fact I tend to be very much just someone there who tries to blend in. I understand why and how what I said was taken in such a manner. Fear not, there is nothing to fear from me! I am well aware of all the things that goes through your minds when a guy walks past, and always use the adage if would I want that done to me. Enjoy, be free, have fun in the sun!

17 Feb 2013

Great topic indeed. Personally, I would never approach a couple in a tent and make small talk unless I knew them prior. I go to Sunnyside beach with an open mind that anything could happen on the day, which is part ot the thrill. I check the usual spots like the rocks and bushes and the couple of times I have stumbled across m/f action I have stood back at a respectful distance slowly tugging myself which indicates I am interested in joining in the fun if they are interested in me. I think for couples that want a guy, or guys who are looking, its best to familiarise yourself with the known dogging sections that are off the main beach. Go there, put on a show and if somebody takes your fancy then call them over. Soliciting/playing on the beach is simply not on. It is not an open air brothel. There are kids/and people who will be offended and we do risk losing the beaches if we are not careful.

18 Feb 2013

Quote by realblonde
Long story short, they ended up playing with each other under the water. On one view, this felt like the wrong thing to do at an established nude beach, but nobody could see what they were doing under the water at that depth, and we were a fair way out from shore, so it still felt discreet.

19 Feb 2013

I have a mouth therefore I say Hi, Chit chat is a way to see where Poeple stand. If we all left our hangups at home and just talked the world would be a better place. If Someone says h,i return it, If you you are not interested then polite inform he/she of that. And if you are the he/she respect the decline and move on. My 2c Cheers M

19 Feb 2013

Quote by TemptedTwo
Long story short, they ended up playing with each other under the water. On one view, this felt like the wrong thing to do at an established nude beach, but nobody could see what they were doing under the water at that depth, and we were a fair way out from shore, so it still felt discreet.

I don't think too many people are going to have a problem with that.
As we keep saying - treat a nude beach just like a clothed beach (except you're nude). At a clothed beach couples often do have a discrete play beneath the surface of the water, or off in the dunes. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't be a dick by sitting openly on the beach stroking your cock as you check out the other nude hotties. On a clothed beach that would get you arrested, and the same should apply at nude beaches!
That's right. Play and action goes on at textile beaches as does perving and flirting. I am a genuine sun seeker but there is nothing wrong with talking to people, making new friends and if the intetest is there discreet adult fun.
Thats how it is at any beach