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<<<<is happy to say I have never nor will I ever no show ,,,,but it isn't just single blokes who are guilty of this ,,,,many single ladies and couples are also guilty
fortunately I have not as yet been a victim of this either ,,,although I did have a meet get cancelled on me within an hour of my arrival ,,,,an hour before hand is not so bad I suppose ,,,but I had already been driving to my destination for 4 hours :twisted:
Orgasminator
that is funny, well its one way to make some extra cash and put some use into down times of cimenas
we have had some couples cancel. once is ok but twice with the same excuse within 7 days is crap.
i understand life does get in the way, its happened to us where we had to cancel once but we made up for it the next week.
yes two,, cancellations are one thing and all understand that times are unavoidable ,,ie family emergency etc ,,,,however no shows are a completely different animal and given communications availability in these times (everyone has at least a mobile ,,even me ) and so in my book are completely needless and unforgiveable
Orgasminator
yes dad, i really dont think there would be many acceptable excuses for no comms between people
Warming the Bed
we had a guy "No Show" very recently ,, he had been given a contact number etc etc , But No Call .Two days later we get a message , "Oh sorry couldnt come I was held up at another function " ,,,,,,,he seemed genuinely Sorry , although we will not be extending him another invite, It doesnt sound like too much hassal, we were a bit disappointed , MrsPJ was looking forward to having some fun with Him , (I love to watch). so not a good start to meeting single guys on Swingers Heaven
What Our single friend doesnt seem to realise or care about , is that for Us with Kids, like many other couples , we have to organise our own stuff before making some room in our life , with business etc, to find time for a sexy playtime with Him , or anyone else for that matter.
In our case we Homeschool , so kids are a 24/7task . So we want to meet this guy , we organise for the kids to have an outdoors trip well away from home with some other person to take them , leaving us some play time . Then we waited , and waited , not wanting to slip out for a minute in case he called . We thought we would look bad if we didnt answer his call (he was passing thru our little town along a major highway) so it was hang around all day waiting , he couldnt give an exact time , After a while we gave up and the Kids were brought back home , . dont sound too bad , but hey lots of questions about what we were doing etc , its awkward sometimes ,
I really think in a lotta cases the "Littlehead" thinks more than thebig one and a lot of single guys dont realise whats involved in getting a meeting arranged with a couple
Me and MrsPJ
Warming the Bed
As a single guy I have been on the receiving end of rudeness and been stood up.
I had arranged a meet with a couple on SH via emails and phone calls. About 2 hours before the meet up I received a phone call confirming I would still be there. And as I was driving to the place (20 min before arranged time) another phone call confirming I would be there and confirming they would be to.
Nothing. I stayed for an hour, and as their mobile phone was showing as a "Private" number I could not call them back. Four emails with no reply.
I have always shown up to meets. I have even been told "No thanks" within a few minutes of meeting.
There is often rudeness displayed to single guys in the chatrooms as well.
All I ask is that you don't treat every single guy out there like a rude pig until he does actually do something to deserve it.
Let's be nice to each other.
M
