Only the most basic membership on SH in the UK is free, this does not allow access to the chatroom, forum or allow you to reply to mail sent from another member to name a few things. This does not weed out the wannabees and timewasters as quite a lot of them will happily pay out a minimal fee so they can get their kicks perving the gallery and other peoples profiles!
OMG, what a dangerous path you are treading, this can only end in tears, probably for both of you!
You either want to be with your partner and must accept her decision not to swing or you need to be on your own and carrying on with your current activities.
You cant do both as thats cheating and not swinging. Put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel if you found out that she had been doing the same thing to you??
Hi to you all.
I am a member on SH in the UK and have a pic of my strap on on my profile. You just would not believe the number of "straight" males that contact me wanting an "experience" lol